wow.. my family kicks ass..

haha... yay! omg.. i had SUCH a fun weekend.. it was awesome.. awww man..

alright.. well.. lets see.. friday we went up and had the rehearsal.. it was pretty good... except my sister, heathers, boyfriend (ted) was laying down in the pews for it, just cuz he was being an immature baby.. but the rehearsal was hilarious.. mike and matt and shane were just such funny guys.. and then sharon and mike came running down the aisle after us when we were goin out.. haha.. and the wedding coordinator was like, "you cant do that tomorrow"... and sharons like "oh really?" just to fuck with her cuz hello, does she think sharon and mike would really do that tomorrow? sheeesh..

but then we went to the party afterwards and it was really fun.. we just hung out and talked and it was just fun..

then i went to heathers to spend the night and she and ted were up forever just bitching eachother out.. he was being a real ass..

so then in the morning i wake up and go get my hair done at like 9, ted tells heather hes not going to be in the wedding anymore cuz he's a butt fuck, and so whatever...

awww.. i looked cute.. even tho my dress was retarded.. everyone kept saying i looked great.. so yeah.. we took pics around 1... till about 3:30...

the wedding started at 4.. it went pretty good.. i walked down with matt.. haha.. he's so hilarious..

becca actually didn’t mess up that much.. haha.. she looked beautiful too.. I’m so happy for her..

then after the wedding.. when bec and bryan went on their buggy ride to the reception.. me and heather and Sharon busted ass to the hotel and decorated their room…

we wrote on the mirrors in lipstick and put 2 champaign glasses out with 2 bottles of miller lite in ice… we put signs up everywhere and rose petals leading to the bed, then we made a heart outta rose petals on the bed..

after that we hauled ass again to get to the reception… we were not too late.. then we sat down for supper.. I sat between mike and shane.. oh I love shane.. he’s awesome.. he gave a funny best man’s speech.. and heather cried when she had to give her speech.. thank god I wasn’t the maid of honor.. I wouldn’t know what to say!

Um.. after that the groomsmen kidnapped bec and we kidnapped bryan.. we took him to heathers and make him chug tequila and apple pucker.. oh man.. tequila really burns my throat.. then we had him take off his vest, and we put on red lipstick and kissed his white shirt all over… then we gave him a beer and drove down to the bar cuz we knew the guys would take becca there.. haha.. she thought it was funny..

THEN, after he was nice and drunk, we took him back to the reception.. they had their first dance and so on and so forth… and omg.. the dance was thee best!!

Me and bec were the first ones on the dance floor. And needless to say becca tripped on her dress and fell on the butt! Haha.. but it was a graceful fall and she was up in about a half a second.. but we got it on camera!!! Woot woot!

Yeha.. the dance was the best.. it was so friggin hot tho… and Robert.. man, he’s such a sweetie.. he was an usher.. and I danced with him, and he’s wicked good friends with bryan and becca and heather.. and we were just talking and he’s just like, yeah I love em to death.. and then he hugged me and he’s like, you looked beautiful tonight.. just gorgeous.. I mean, absolutely stunning.. and heather came over and he’s like, you looked beautiful too.. you all did..

And I’m just like.. awwwww..

We danced to a couple other songs.. and then another slow song.. he put out his hand and hes like.. can I have this dance… he is so terribly sweet.. and hott.. I mean, man.. he’s good looking.. plus, he’s a really sweet guy… I haven’t seen a guy like that in a year!

Anyways.. the other slow song with dance to was “every rose has its thorns”.. and he was singing it.. it was funny.. and I forget what I was saying … something.. and he just hugged me and he’s like, your so awesome….

But I wish he would hook up with my sister heather.. cuz I mean, hes 22.. a little old for me.. but he was telling me how he believes in treating a girl like a queen… and respecting all girls, even those you aren’t dating.. and plus.. I think she likes him.. she needs a good guy..

Sharon was hilarious the whole night.. friggin drunk as hell. It was a hoot.. shes so awesome.. if I ever wanna party harty I’ll call her..

My brother made fun of the way I danced when I danced with him.. haha.. but I was just goofy and buzzed and just having a good time… I had quite a bit of champaign..

He’s like “what, are you trying to churn butter? Row a canoe?” I’m just like.. “yaeaaaaah”…

Haha.. yeah.. but then, to make the great night into a dramatic catastrophe..

Ted comes over to heather at the end when the lights come on, cuz he was just on the other side of the room sitting at the bar, “you’ve got 5 minutes to get home or you can go and get the fuck outta my life”.. just because she was dancing with other guys.. I mean.. sheesh.. when ya dance you get hot and sweaty and rub up against other people, that’s just how it is.. DEAL WITH IT.. but he could and he started yelling at her.. becca’s like “stop being an asshole” and Sharon says “ya know what, my daughters there.. just let me get her before anything happens”.. and he says “you’ve got 5 minutes”..

So she yells at jon “lets go” and he didn’t hear what was going on so he’s like.. what?

I’m like, just go she’ll explain..

So heather and Sharon went to pick up the girls and pack up some of their stuff..

And I guess ted tried to talk to my dad and my dad goes “get the fuck outta my face!”

Then the groomsmen, matt and shane, gave him a beer and they all stood outside drinking and smoking and their like “he’s an asshole, forget about him.. you were a man to walk away..” and stuff and trying to get him to go down to the bar with them.. haha..

But yeah, my dad really was furious.. and jon was gonna break ted’s face with a baseball bat, but he’s smarter than that.. when it comes down to it jons a VERY protective brother..

And then Robert was asking him if I wanted to go down to the bar with em, and I’m like.. no.. and then matt put his arm around me and said something.. I don’t remember.. trying to get me to go.. and I’m like.. nah.. and I forget what he said.. nothing sick or perverted like a lot of teenage guys would say.. cuz matt and mike and shane and Robert are such sweet and respectful guys.. anyways.. but I remember I’m like, and you’d go to jail, maybe it was about marrying or something. And he’s like, what? How old are you..

17…

oh, holy shit..

haha.. anyways.. so then I drove bec and bryan back to the hotel.. and went to my room..

it’s got 2 beds.. and in that room, there was my mom, dad, heather, Brooklyn, jon, Sharon, and me.. and the hotel was TOTALLy booked.. so yeah.. that was a comfy night.. pshhhh..

the next day we went to Bryans parents house.. they have an indoor pool.. ha.. yeah.. must be nice to own a restaurant..

and then Robert and shane showed up.. and I got pushed into the pool.. by Sharon.. then maybe a half hour later.. jon tossed Sharon in.. so Sharon tried to get him back put couldn’t.. haha.. and kaitlyn started crying cuz she thought her parents were really fighting…

bec and heather and the girls were already swimming.. so then we threw my mom in… and then my dad.. haha.. it was so fun.. took a lot outta ya tho.. man.. everyone struggled a friggin lot..

whew.. it was fun.. then Robert I guess got a note on his car signed by a jess.., so he thought I wrote I guess… haha.. I’m like.. noooooooo.. cuz I didn’t.. maybe someone was just playin with him…

anyways.. then pretty much everyone was in a foul mood because heather decided to go back to teds house..

becca started crying, I started crying.. it was bad.. my dad and mom and jon and Sharon and becca tried to tell her it was a bad idea, that she could stay with them till she got on her feet and stuff..

but yeah.. she did… my mom says he’s not welcome at our house.. jon and Sharon say the same and that kaitlyn cant go up there..

I mean, he was just a jerk.. and then becca started bawling saying he emotionally abuses her.. (oh yeah, did I mention she was crying about that on her WEDDING DAY after ted said all that shit)

And yeah.. its scary.. we’ve gone through that already with jeff.. only then it was emotional AND physical abuse.. but I think heathers just scared (after always living with someone for like 5 years.. ) she doesn’t know if she can make it on her own..

But she shouldn’t have to be treated like that.. let me just say.. I’d NEVER take that crap from a guy.. EVER that’s the SHITTIEST thing.. and I’m just scared about having to go through this all again.. she ‘NEEDS to leave him.. things are just going to get worse, that’s what happened with jeff.. I cant do that again.. I cant deal with all that emotional stress..

I have no clue what to do.. it’s horrible.. our whole family is just in shock.. how could she stay with him? But it’s really pulled us together.. I’ve noticed since I’ve been home our family just seems to be so much more closer..

And it’s awesome cuz I love them all.. I’m SOO glad I have such a big family.. it’s more fun that way.. plus.. you know you have much more support than just your parents..

Oh yeah.. and we’re in another tornado warning..

Whew.. well I think I’m about spent..

And I’m sorry kim and laura!! I MEANT to call you but I just didn’t have a chance.. we’ll definetly be hanging out this week alrighty!! Just stop on by some time.. loves!